So even though our home study is not complete we have gotten a taste at what it is like to get "the call". A colleague who is aware that we are adopting (he and his wife have adopted themselves) called on Thursday to see where we were at in the process and whether we might be open to a situation of which he was aware through his church.
My heart stopped as he began to explain the details and I got super excited! I immediately called J.T. and gave him the information we had. We became a bit concerned when a quick google search led to a pretty strong suspicion that there was exposure of which we were uncomfortable, but decided we would continue to just play things by ear.
On Friday I left to meet some girlfriends out of state (prepared to turn around at any moment if necessary). On the way I got a call from my colleague explaining that the new mom was not clear on what open adoption truly was, her expectations were not going to realistically translate to a placement, and that her family had agreed (and preferred) to help her raise the baby.
So our excitement was short lived, but it was interesting to get a glimpse into the whirlwind of emotion we will get to experience when the real time comes (sooner rather than later-fingers crossed!). We decided it was like our fire drill and believe we passed with flying colors:).
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